Showing posts with label traditions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label traditions. Show all posts

Monday, September 19, 2011

Middle Eastern weddings, culture, customs and traditions


Middle Eastern Weddings: can be assured, will be a happy happy binding, particularly with emphasis that the culture of the Middle East to the family. Loyalty and respect of the family has, and will always be top priority. The family comes before the individual. Marriages were organized and still are today. For those who reside in the West, whose limits are less rigid, it is customary to request approval and ask parents the permission to marry.

A brief history of marriage in the Middle East:

The Middle East includes the lands around the Mediterranean Sea to the Persian Gulf; the generally accepted definition of nations in Asia of the Iran to the Egypt. The Middle East also defines a cultural area, although it is noted that journalists most often speak of lands in North Africa such as North Africa. The lands of the Middle East include: Bahrain, Egypt, Turkey, Iran (Persia), Iraq, Israel, Jordan, Kuwait, Lebanon, Oman, Qatar, Saudi Arabia, Syria, United Arab Emirates (UAE), Yemen and the Palestinian territories of West Bank and Gaza.


Influences on marriage in the Middle East:

(a) Culture. There are many different cultural groups including Arabic, Persian and Turkish cultures. Other significant groups include the Kurds, Berbers, Assyrians and Chaldeans.
(b) Religion. The main religions are Judaism, Christianity, Islam and Druzism.
(c) language There are four major languages, Persian, Arabic, Turkish and Hebrew.
(d). geography If a sedentary oasis, or live a nomadic lifestyle as roaming tribe of Bedouin shepherds lead by their Sheik oasis to oasis. Then there is the boarder of the Mediterranean, Indian, African cultures, influences etc., and the field of dessert dry rolling green Plains.
(e) wealth. As with all cultures that the prosperity of the family will verify the profligacy of the marriage.

Marriages in the traditional Middle East:


There are five steps in the Middle East below marriages. However, given the diversity of the Middle East it should be recognized there are tribal, cultural, regional, religious and language differences, so what follows is a general overview.

(1) A part of the commitment, to celebrate the union of the couple pending and together the two families. The future may change his holding up to five times.
(2) The marriage contract was signed at the Palace of justice, after which will follow another part. Once again, the bride may change his holding up to five times.
(3) The henna party has always held a day before the marriage. The bride, dressed in green, will have his hands and his feet to ward evil spirits.
(4) wedding and wedding reception. During the marriage, the couple will exchange rings. Subsequently, there is a banquet of marriage, in which guests are given five pieces with almonds, representative of the health, happiness, wealth, fertility and longevity. Click here for an Arabian marriage Banquet
(5) The wedding shower, ?Sabaa?, always takes place seven days after the marriage. Gift is given, the mother of bride?s gives traditionally gold and diamonds.

Attire for weddings in the Middle East:


If attending a wedding in a mosque, men should wear long pants and shirts. Women should dress modestly, (to ensure that their arms and legs are covered) and cover the head. Shoes should be left at the door. Men and women pray separately. The Imam leading prayers.


The costume of groom?s include a tunic, pants, will be over-garment with a cloth sash and head belt or size. The latter can be a turban, ?tarbush?or ?kafiyyeh?. The costume of bride?s will be similar to the groom?s, except that his clothes are going to be highly decorated and include wearing a mask. The choice fabric may be social status. Choice in decoration may be marital status. Both indicate the heritage and tribal affiliations.


As a general rule for a woman joining ?hijab? , everything should be covered regardless of his hands, face and feet. Must be a ?chador? headscarf and a long dress/more coat ?abayah? (or ?abbaya?), or ?jilbab?.


A ?shirsh? is a dress of a length with tight sleeves. A ?thob? is a too long dress that folds in the middle with large sleeves. ?burqas? is a name given to the mask, and ?yashmak? and ?batula?. The trousers that narrow at the ankle is called ?sirwai?.


If you have been invited to a marriage of Middle Eastern and still have questions that you have not found the answers here, then feel free to ask the groom or future. I am sure that they would be delighted to share their customs with you.


Marriages of the Middle East


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Thursday, September 8, 2011

Modern and ancient Scottish wedding traditions


Scottish marriages: differs depending on whether you are a low gear or a high Lander, on the East Coast or West Coast. How many of you watched Brave Heart from Mel Gibson? Remember that the owner might claim the bride on the eve of their marriage? Are you of Gaelic or Celtic origin? All these factors affect the choices that you made then to decide on the traditions that you want to use when planning your wedding.

Differences in Scottish weddings from the rest of the United Kingdom:
- The first major difference in Scottish weddings, in Scotland, it is the priest/marriage celebrant who is authorized to proceed with a marriage, as opposed to a building or room granted in the rest of the United Kingdom.
-Marriage two ceremonies would be made, the first outside the Church in the Scots language, the second in the Church were the ceremony would be conducted in Latin.
-L' minimum age allowed to marry in Scotland is 16, with the consent of the parents.

Traditions associated with Scottish marriages:

- Pope Nicolas I in 860 AD introduced the engagement ring as a pledge to marry. It was originally a band of gold, diamond ring, a tradition of the last day.
-A part of the commitment was held for the two families meet.
-In the 13th century, the priest would announce the proposed marriage, on three successive Sundays know now that the prohibitions of marriage? ?the. Today the notice of intent is only required.
-On the eve of marriage the bride and the groom had their respective Stag and hen nights. The bride would have his feet washed by her bridesmaids, but the groom had greased and hushed with ash, soot, ash and feathers sometimes. Today, these festivities are usually place a fortnight before days to recover!
-The bride and the groom would fail the day of their marriage prior to the meeting at the Church. Today, this tradition is still valid.
-Traditional wives of wedding dresses were not white. A description of 1907, a dress was blue with matching hat, white veil over the face and the lace high-healed boots.
-The groom would originally have been a costume, a Pinstripe suit if he could afford. Today a groom may wear the clan?s tartan kilt. Click on the following links to learn more:
-Dress grooms Highland
-Highland grooms shoes
-The bride should carry a bouquet with a white heather spring in good luck.
-The bride would be presented with an iron horse, once more for good luck.
-A lavish wedding party would follow the marriage with an abundance of Scottish dance. Click on the following link for a celebration of Scottish marriage
-The groom had to carry his bride across the threshold of their House to protect against any bad spirits persistent. The priest would be called upon to bless their home and their marriage bed.

Forgotten Traditions associated with Scottish marriages:

- ?A Penny Wedding? where guests would be called upon to bring their own food and drink at the village hall to celebrate once the marriage is over.
- ?Handfasting? is when the bride and groom could live together for a year and a day after which they would decide to marry or not. The emphasis was not on purity, but on the fertility and compatibility.
- ?Tying Shoes? the bumper of a car, instead of cans, dates back to Egyptian times when sandals were Exchange upon the exchange of goods.
- ?Leap year Proposals? February 29 was only when he could offer women. Today, women often take the initiative. The next leap for all traditionalists remaining is 2008.
- Grey horses? ?Two your trolley traction were considered good luck.
- ?Creeling the groom? is when the groom should have its weight in stones on his back abound the village until the bride agreed to embrace.
- ?Samhain? of the Celtic new year beginning November 1, a very right moment to get married. For people of Gaelic descent March is the month also favourable.

Scottish marriages: introduce a Scottish theme for your wedding day:

- have a tartan alter the fabric
-have an opening of bagpipes
-your bouquet and threads with tartan ribbon flowers
-have poems of Robert Burn?s for your reading of poetry
-chassis of tartan to incorporate your dresses bridesmaid?s
-hire a band of ?ceilidh?
-have ?haggis, neeps and tatties? as an entr?e to your wedding day
-have port for the toast.
-have your wedding out Celtic gold rings

Alternatively you can be just lucky enough to get married in one of the many Scottish castles. If you are not Scottish residents and want to travel to Scotland to marry, check with the Embassy, the necessary legal documents and notification periods. As a minimum, you will need your birth certificate, passport, certificate of death if widowed, divorce certificates where appropriate and in some cases an entry visa.


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