Showing posts with label customs. Show all posts
Showing posts with label customs. Show all posts

Monday, September 19, 2011

Middle Eastern weddings, culture, customs and traditions


Middle Eastern Weddings: can be assured, will be a happy happy binding, particularly with emphasis that the culture of the Middle East to the family. Loyalty and respect of the family has, and will always be top priority. The family comes before the individual. Marriages were organized and still are today. For those who reside in the West, whose limits are less rigid, it is customary to request approval and ask parents the permission to marry.

A brief history of marriage in the Middle East:

The Middle East includes the lands around the Mediterranean Sea to the Persian Gulf; the generally accepted definition of nations in Asia of the Iran to the Egypt. The Middle East also defines a cultural area, although it is noted that journalists most often speak of lands in North Africa such as North Africa. The lands of the Middle East include: Bahrain, Egypt, Turkey, Iran (Persia), Iraq, Israel, Jordan, Kuwait, Lebanon, Oman, Qatar, Saudi Arabia, Syria, United Arab Emirates (UAE), Yemen and the Palestinian territories of West Bank and Gaza.


Influences on marriage in the Middle East:

(a) Culture. There are many different cultural groups including Arabic, Persian and Turkish cultures. Other significant groups include the Kurds, Berbers, Assyrians and Chaldeans.
(b) Religion. The main religions are Judaism, Christianity, Islam and Druzism.
(c) language There are four major languages, Persian, Arabic, Turkish and Hebrew.
(d). geography If a sedentary oasis, or live a nomadic lifestyle as roaming tribe of Bedouin shepherds lead by their Sheik oasis to oasis. Then there is the boarder of the Mediterranean, Indian, African cultures, influences etc., and the field of dessert dry rolling green Plains.
(e) wealth. As with all cultures that the prosperity of the family will verify the profligacy of the marriage.

Marriages in the traditional Middle East:


There are five steps in the Middle East below marriages. However, given the diversity of the Middle East it should be recognized there are tribal, cultural, regional, religious and language differences, so what follows is a general overview.

(1) A part of the commitment, to celebrate the union of the couple pending and together the two families. The future may change his holding up to five times.
(2) The marriage contract was signed at the Palace of justice, after which will follow another part. Once again, the bride may change his holding up to five times.
(3) The henna party has always held a day before the marriage. The bride, dressed in green, will have his hands and his feet to ward evil spirits.
(4) wedding and wedding reception. During the marriage, the couple will exchange rings. Subsequently, there is a banquet of marriage, in which guests are given five pieces with almonds, representative of the health, happiness, wealth, fertility and longevity. Click here for an Arabian marriage Banquet
(5) The wedding shower, ?Sabaa?, always takes place seven days after the marriage. Gift is given, the mother of bride?s gives traditionally gold and diamonds.

Attire for weddings in the Middle East:


If attending a wedding in a mosque, men should wear long pants and shirts. Women should dress modestly, (to ensure that their arms and legs are covered) and cover the head. Shoes should be left at the door. Men and women pray separately. The Imam leading prayers.


The costume of groom?s include a tunic, pants, will be over-garment with a cloth sash and head belt or size. The latter can be a turban, ?tarbush?or ?kafiyyeh?. The costume of bride?s will be similar to the groom?s, except that his clothes are going to be highly decorated and include wearing a mask. The choice fabric may be social status. Choice in decoration may be marital status. Both indicate the heritage and tribal affiliations.


As a general rule for a woman joining ?hijab? , everything should be covered regardless of his hands, face and feet. Must be a ?chador? headscarf and a long dress/more coat ?abayah? (or ?abbaya?), or ?jilbab?.


A ?shirsh? is a dress of a length with tight sleeves. A ?thob? is a too long dress that folds in the middle with large sleeves. ?burqas? is a name given to the mask, and ?yashmak? and ?batula?. The trousers that narrow at the ankle is called ?sirwai?.


If you have been invited to a marriage of Middle Eastern and still have questions that you have not found the answers here, then feel free to ask the groom or future. I am sure that they would be delighted to share their customs with you.


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Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Irish weddings incorporating of traditional customs and practices


Traditional Irish marriages: have never been more popular. More more people are back to, or the research is to provide information on their Irish heritage. Known as the Emerald Isle, Eire is surrounded by myths and legends on the fairies and the green ?little men?.

A brief history of Irish Weddings:

History of the Ireland is a constant struggle, so today?s Ireland is very different from the past. Today, there are four provinces: Ulster - North of the island (in the governance of the United Kingdom) and Connacht, Leinster and Munster forming the Ireland of the South (of independent rule). Traditions differ from County to County (4 provinces are divided into 32 counties). The Irish have a Celtic origin and speak Gaelic Irish (to distinguish between Scottish Gaelic), which is known as the Irish - ?Gaelige?, although English is commonly spoken. They are predominantly Catholic-91,5%, with the Church of Ireland of 2.5% and a handful of other religions ? 6%.


Traditional Irish Weddings:


Traditional Irish marriages were not repeated opulent, but always a time of great celebration. Informal marriages have been common; first of all, due to the custom of ?striking a contract?. (In short love not necessarily registered the equation than the bride brought with her a dowry of essential land.) Second, a couple would often wait a year to visit outlying villages to marry officially by the itinerant priest.


The bride and the groom would walk to church together, covered of various objects by the villagers. During their marriage, they would be the permission of the Church of a flock of firearms and take road longer House to the House of bride?s. The villagers would bring a plate of food and drink to the House to celebrate, largely singing and dancing bride?s. Click on the following link for traditional Irish Menu a:.


Symbolism surrounding Irish Weddings:


There are hundreds of customs surrounding Irish weddings. Here are some of them, but certainly not all!

- Bracelet woven hair? ?A was given by the man to the woman that he wanted to marry. If she accepted the bracelet was symbolic of her acceptance of him.
?Aitin? the gander?. The groom was invited to his home in bride?s the night before the marriage of eating a dish of goose cooked in his honour.
- ?Harvest straw? nodes have been another way, a man could declare his intention to marry. He would give to his future is decorated with flowers for hair, or bells to hang around the neck.
- ?Claddagh ring?, is a ring of Irish marriage designed with a heart in the Centre, a hand to hand and heart and a Crown above. It is symbolic of the friendship, loyalty and fidelity.
- ?Bride?s dress?: either have ?best dress?, or a blue dress if they could afford. The rich have their Irish lace-trimmed dress.
- ?Bride?s veil?: would have pouches of herbs hung below, only symbolic step of fertility, but to the evil spirits.
- ?Bride?s bouquet?: include the wild flowers, in particular the ?Bells of Ireland?.
- ?Bride?s hair?: would be braided, symbolic of feminine power and luck, with a Crown of wild flowers.
- ?Magic handkerchief?: the bride should carry a special tissue which could be turned into a bonnet of baptism for it to born first.
- ?Horseshoe?: the bride would be given an iron lucky horse
- ?Groom?s attire?: would be better dress, or he could wear his kilt of clan?s.
- ?Chiming bells?: bells could ring to keep evil spirits away.
- ?The Grushie?: the groom would toss a handful of coins into the crowd after the marriage ceremony, symbolic of bringing good luck.
- ?Cuckoo?: thought good luck if the bride heard a cuckoo on the morning of her wedding
- ?Singing?: he was regarded as a chance for a flange back and married to sing in their own marriage.
- ?Bride?s feet?: it must always be in contact with the ground during the dance, otherwise the fairies would whisk him away.
- ?Mi na meala?: honeymoon, (honey month) and the groom bride would drink sweet wine said to improve fertility and virility.

How to bring an Irish theme for your wedding:


Irish weddings are more popular as the couples return to their heritage. Here are some ideas that you can incorporate into your day:

- Bride?s dress: have a pattern of clover four lucky leaves beaded or embroidered on it and incorporates some Irish lace. You can also have an Irish lace veil.
- Irish wedding wishes: incorporate into your wedding ceremony, for example by Morgan Llywelyn. Alternatively, you can for an Irish read poem. Look in the Oxford Book of Irish Verse? ?New 1986.
- Unity Candle wish: for example ?Irish Unity? of the Irish book of marriage vow
- Irish blessing: such as engraved on St Patrick?s Breastplate, Thomas Moore and Jonathon Swift. You can also a blessing for Druid?s.
- Ceilid:: hire an Irish group playing the ?Bodhran? (Irish drum), a violin, piper and tin whistle.
- Irish harpist: hire a musician to play at your wedding ceremony or your wedding breakfast.
- Menu Irish: have an Irish marriage feast ? see the link above and a cake of marriage to Irish recipe.
- Irish dancers: hire a troop of Irish dancers.
- Green: have a green colour theme.
- Decorate: with shamrocks, the emblem of the Ireland.
- Wedding favours: give ?make-up? miniature bells, Bailey?s Irish Cream miniature bottles, music CD of Celtic, Irish SOAP bar in the spring or Irish lace handkerchief.

Finally, the choice of a day of good augurs which marry - Irish consider on the eve of new year's luckiest day. You can also choose the summer solstice of winter, or spring or the autumn equinox, June 21, 21 December, March 21 and September 21, respectively.


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