Friday, September 30, 2011

Disadvantages and joint wedding pros

Mixed marriage: a double ceremony, to be honest, I see more reasons not to have a mixed marriage that why you would know the idea of having a. Thus, let?s start here and go through the side. In doing so, you can quickly find if such a marriage is for you.

Why I would not have a mixed marriage:


-sense of insecurity, less attractive, or more well-crafted than the other the bride
-feelings of jealousy, having to share the attention, focus fully on me
-loss of individuality
-which would be come to walk the aisle first?
-who gets to say their vows and man and woman first?
-who gets to sign the registry first?
-who could get out of the driveway first with their husbands?
-where my family sitting in the Congregation, they would be pushed back?
-who will have the last word on music, hymns, poetry reading, solos, etc.?
-will double the amount of hard work, running area, etc. get left me?
-We have a few friends that it may be difficult to afford two gifts of marriage at the same time overlapping
-number of guests will not know, so it is not impersonal for them
-I am my only daughter of parents and I know that they did not envisage such a marriage for me


Have I go further? I think that is why joint marriages tend to occur when there is a family relationship in question, for example two sisters marrying brothers. Or, if the bride to be really does not want for the attention and is very happy for the other bride to his scapegoat.


When should, therefore, not consider you legislation double?


For a mixed marriage, you start by wanting the same thing. There will almost always be common denominators such as the same religious beliefs and cultural backgrounds and values. The two couples concerned will be generally very good friends and similar ages. Looking at photographs of couples who had joint marriages, I am always surprised similarly they seek not only to the dress, but also physically. Couple?s families will probably already know each other and move in a same circle of friends.


Benefits of a mixed marriage:



-certain expenses can be shared as a marriage, instead of a receipt, etc.
-your guests have only the cost of a wedding costume
-you share your day with your best friend
-you both have the same ? of goals to make your wedding the best day ever, so that you have double the energy of puts
-saved on certain expenses, you may be able means extras, eg. Fireworks, which otherwise you could not afford


That should you do?



-not be forced or under pressure in a mixed marriage
s ' ensure that your objectives of marriage are in perfect harmony with each other?s
s ' ensure that you have taken into account your parents and your wishes grooms
-be honest with yourself and make sure that this is what you really want to
-be honest with the other bride and how differences can be resolved in agreement


For such a link with another couple is very unique and special. Ultimately you know if a marriage is for you, as you will be unable to imagine your wedding day any other way.


You wish all every happiness for the future.


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